Jiayuan matchmaker routine is deep： female white-collar workers spend 28,800 yuan to find pure suspension spring.

For office workers who are busy at work on weekdays, it is a luxury to take time out to solve personal problems. Therefore, many people turn to the matchmaker of the dating website to find the other half efficiently.

However, the reality is often cruel, and some people have spent tens of thousands of yuan and still failed to find the desired TA. It’s not that my eyes are too picky, but that I was given a routine by the dating network.

On March 15th, Xinmin.com made an unannounced visit to the matchmaker business in jiayuan, the largest marriage platform in China, and the result was surprising.

The following is a record of the reporter’s unannounced visit:

"I paid 28,800 yuan, but the education, work, even appearance and information of the introduced object are all not right! Jiayuan is bad for my marriage! " Ms. Shi, a citizen, called the phone to reveal that she suspected that she had encountered a "fake blind date" after purchasing the offline service in jiayuan. Coincidentally, many complainants, such as Mr. Chen and Mr. Li, also encountered similar situations.

Many complainants told reporters that offline stores were "brainwashed" by "matchmaker", and each complainant described the same scene — — In the closed compartment, the matchmaker can make a customer who goes to an offline store spend tens of thousands of yuan to buy the blind date service provided by it within 2 hours. "Listen if you don’t believe me, ‘ Kiss up ’ 、‘ Pull the wound ’ 、‘ Storytelling ’ ‘ Tell a case ’ All kinds of routines guarantee that you want to pay to find someone, "concluded one complainant.

The reporter made an unannounced visit: "Hua 2Buy happiness. "

In order to explore the "matchmaker" service in jiayuan, on the afternoon of February 26th, according to the phone provided by the informant, the reporter called jiayuan to ask the other party how to become an offline VIP member. The other party said that they could go to the store for consultation and provided the address. On the same day, the reporter came to the offline store of Pudong Avenue in jiayuan as a consumer, and a senior love analyst who claimed to be "Mr. Wang" received the reporter.

"We have 200 professional matchmakers here", "jiayuan was listed on NASDAQ in the United States" and "on average, 100 couples of men and women meet here every day on Saturday and Sunday". After showing the reporters the trophies, certificates and photos displayed in the store, Mr. Wang indicated to wait a moment. After the third door was pushed open, the staff in the room and the young woman took the initiative to give up their seats. "You use it first, and we are finished talking." The old aunt and the woman carrying LV bags came out. "They are all looking for our matchmaker." Teacher Wang introduced to the reporter.

After sitting down, Mr. Wang began to communicate with reporters. As soon as she came up, she made some comments on the image, such as "You should cut your hair short in front", "You know you are a science and engineering man by the way you talk and dress" and "You must be an otaku because you don’t have much contact with girls at ordinary times". Immediately, the conversation turned to "comfort" the reporter, "In fact, your eyes are big" and "you are quite handsome".

After learning that the reporter is engaged in "IT work", with an annual income of about 150,000 yuan, a house and a car, and after her parents retire, she went straight to the subject. "From the perspective of education and income, you are suitable for the file of 28,800 yuan." In the meantime, she kept digging out the existing female customers in her mobile phone to look at the reporter. "Do you think this little girl called? Pure ","You can’t Hold this mature ","There is a girl with a monthly income of 5,000 yuan, and Deping Road has a house. Are you interested? "

On the difference between different price points, the reporter learned that the so-called difference between 18,800 yuan and 28,800 yuan is mainly "income" and "education". "There are about 500 to 600 people in the 18,800-yuan library, mainly technical colleges, while there are more than 1,000 people in the 28,800-yuan library, mostly undergraduates." Teacher Wang explained, "No matter how expensive you are, you can’t Hold on. There will be a blind date here later, with a monthly income of 40,000. Her goal is to be successful." According to Teacher Wang, she has more than 900 customers, many of whom have an annual income of 10 million. "I also have hundreds of millions of customers!"

Caption: On February 26th, the reporter came to the offline store of Pudong Avenue in jiayuan for consultation as a consumer. Source: Xinmin Evening News Xinmin. com unannounced visit team

In addition to asking questions, Mr. Wang also "confided" to reporters. "My annual income is 300,000. Last year, I just bought a Qingpu superimposed villa, and I didn’t feel a million or two renovations at all!" She turned out her mobile phone again and clicked on a photo. "This young man is 89 years old, and he is also looking for someone here." From the handsome men and women born in the 1990s to the 60-year-old, from the working class earning 5,000 yuan a month to the social elite earning millions a year, Mr. Wang can "strategize". "Choosing the other half means choosing the rest of your life. What is the most expensive thing you bought after work?" After the reporter answered that it might be real estate, she smiled and said, "It’s not expensive for you to spend 20 thousand to buy happiness."

When asked how to ensure the authenticity of the blind date information, Teacher Wang revealed, "Think about it, people who pay for blind dates are just like you. How can they lie?" She said that on the premise of believing in the sincerity of customers, she would ask the other party to provide copies of ID cards, real estate information, education certificates, etc. When asking whether there was fraud, she promised that all the customers were paying customers and there was no fraud.

An hour later, the reporter was still unmoved, and she observed the words and made a new move. "You are a post-90 s generation, you can enjoy ‘ Love fund ’ This is the integral of the matchmaker. " She explained, "For example, if you buy a service of 28,800 yuan today, then I can help you to rise to 48,800 yuan for free, and in the same way, buy a file and upgrade a file." Seeing that the reporter still didn’t respond, she urged, "The director is here today, and he can help you to get promoted. You can only enjoy it when you come for the first time after 90, and you won’t have a chance next time."

When the reporter said that he just wanted to know today and didn’t sign the contract, Teacher Wang persuaded him, "‘ Marriage ’ A word is a ‘ Female ’ Add ‘ Faint ’ When you get married, your IQ is zero, and you can fall in love on impulse! " Seeing that the reporter was still unwilling to sign the contract, she asked if there was anything to hide. When the reporter answered that he needed to discuss it with his mother, she suggested, "You should call your mother now to communicate. ‘ Love fund ’ Free upgrades can only be enjoyed for the first time. "

In the end, after spending an hour and a half in the room, Ms. Wang "let" the reporter go after the reporter repeatedly refused.

Then, after signing the contract and paying tens of thousands of fees, can you really find the ideal partner? The experience of several complainants shows that the money has been smashed out, but the "happy engagement" has still disappeared.

Caption: The reporter made an unannounced visit. Source: Xinmin Evening News Xinmin. com unannounced visit team

Case 1: The blind date is "not worthy of the name and full of loopholes"

The poem describes his own experience with "nightmare". White and delicate, she is in her thirties, and she earns more than 200,000 yuan in market analysis in foreign companies. In December, 2016, jiayuan VIP Service Center called to recommend "one-on-one matchmaker" service to her. Considering the pressure at home and the age of "leftover women", she decided to give it a try.

On December 22, 2016, Xiao Shi met Ms. Kong, the "matchmaker", at jiayuan Pudong Avenue Store. Ms. Kong assured her that the blind date must be "the right person" — — Introduce a man who pays the same fee to her. On the same day, she paid 28,800 yuan to become a "Jade Member". The reporter saw that the contract stated the man’s "hard indicators" such as "monthly income above 15,000", "housing", "age difference within 10 years" and "bachelor degree or above".

At 3 pm on December 31, 2016, Xiaoshi met the blind date at Pudong Avenue Store — — Mr sun. In the compartment in the store, the two sides talked about life and ideals. When asked about the job, she readily "told the whole story" about the company’s position and place of work, but when she asked back, the other party was very embarrassed and only answered "working in Huangpu District" and kept silent. Less than five minutes later, Mr. Sun left first on the grounds of "something".

The second object is even more outrageous. The photo sent by "Matchmaker" is obviously a thin guy, but the real person has become a middle-aged fat uncle! "This is a blind date? After I paid the money, I became a sucker. I felt that I had suffered a "fake blind date" and decided to "get justice" from jiayuan.

On January 12, Xiaoshi came to the store again. Ms. Kong, the "matchmaker", denied that she had promised to introduce a paid man to meet her, and the information on the blind date was also "full of loopholes". First of all, there is not even a school official seal on the copy of Mr. Sun’s academic qualifications; The company on the business card provided is "Boke International Trading Company", but the information sent by the matchmaker was "Boston Science and Technology Company". Apart from these two points, Mr. Sun’s registration information is just a handwritten form — — Only the name and phone number are on it. As for the information of the second object, Ms. Kong simply replied that she could not produce it.

Xiao Shi, who wants a refund, will be sent home and wait for 7 working days. Seeing that there was no reply after the appointed time, she called the 12315 rights hotline for help. "The blind date became a farce and I felt like a joke." During the interview, Xiao Shi couldn’t help crying many times.

On February 28th, 2017, jiayuan Pudong Avenue Store called Xiaoshi to offer a full refund, and the two sides are still in further negotiation.

Caption: Xiaoshi found that the copy of the first blind date’s education didn’t even have a stamp on the school. Source: Photo courtesy of the reporter

Caption: Xiao Shi found that Mr. Sun’s certificate was simply false. Source: Photo courtesy of the reporter

Case 2: "Run out" of meeting opportunities within one week.

Chen Ye, who made the same phone call as Xiao Shi, suffered a similar situation.

On January 17th, 2015, Xiao Chen, who participated in the offline friendship of jiayuan in liouhe rd, Huangpu District, was dragged into a room by the matchmaker alone. Born in 1989, he is an automobile engineer. He is busy working overtime on weekdays and rarely comes into contact with the opposite sex. After more than two hours of hard work, the matchmaker signed a package with a contract period of six months and three blind date opportunities at a price of 12,800 yuan. Unexpectedly, Xiao Chen’s serious six-month expectation was all sent away in a week.

Xiao Chen told reporters that in a week, "matchmaker" arranged three meetings for him, and after three meetings, there was no news. What he can’t accept most is that in every contact, such as basic information such as age, education, work, etc., the other party answers prevaricated, while others are absent-minded and indifferent. Within a week, Xiao Chen used up all the opportunities, and 12,800 yuan also "hit Shui Piao".

What makes Xiao Chen even more strange is that his matchmaker has deleted all his WeChat friends. "How can I communicate with them?" Xiao Chen sighed.

Caption: Mr. Chen found the jiayuan Rights Protection Group. Source: Photo courtesy of the person who broke the news (image mosaic processing)

Case 3: Say "Pay" and see that "Pay" is really a waste of water.

As for Xiao Li, because of his higher income and older age, he chose a 50,000 yuan package to find a good wife. "Matchmaker took out a tablet computer to introduce me to her resources before signing the contract," he recalled. "What I value most is that jiayuan assured me — — The object of blind date is definitely the same as me. "

But what is the actual situation? According to the contract, Xiao Li had six blind date opportunities within eight months. After signing the contract, he met with four ladies one after another. Among them, "Matchmaker" introduced a music teacher who was in a university in Nanjing and arrived in Nanjing with expectations. As a result, the two sides met for less than three minutes, and the "music teacher" left on a perfunctory excuse. "I met four candidates, and everyone was absent-minded and insincere."

Xiao Li, who was consciously fooled, repeatedly asked whether the "matchmaker" was a paying customer like herself. "It took so much money, and just a few meetings were so extravagant?" In the face of his questions, "matchmaker" did not respond and never contacted Xiao Li again. Until December 2016, Xiao Li took the initiative to contact jiayuan to refund the fee, and the other party replied bluntly, "You have seen four, and it is impossible to refund the money."

"What’s the difference between such a one-on-one matchmaker service and going online to find someone to date? After using up the number of meetings, we will become lambs to be slaughtered! " Xiao Li summed it up.

Jiayuan: There is no promise that it must be a paying user to come to blind date.

On March 1, 2017, the reporter contacted jiayuan Huangpu Store by telephone, and the regional manager, Manager Wang, was interviewed by the reporter. She said that the offline matchmaker service in jiayuan does not guarantee that the blind date must be a paying user, and "matchmaker" will decide the right person to meet according to the specific situation of customers. She told reporters that the situation of Xiao Shi and Xiao Li needs to be further verified with the staff. As for Xiao Chen, she said that she had contacted him many times before, but the negotiations had been fruitless. "Why did Mr. Chen wait for a year to complain? Just want a full refund? " Manager Wang asked the reporter. At the same time, she also said that if jiayuan does have problems of principle, such as "dereliction of duty, work deviation, inconsistent information, etc.", it will definitely take responsibility.

Regarding manager Wang’s question, Xiao Chen said, "I found a poem and Xiao Li who suffered similar experiences on the Internet, which made me summon up courage to defend my rights." At first, Xiao Chen thought he might be a case. "I didn’t expect to join the QQ group and find that such situations abound all over the country. When I said that it was exactly the same," Xiao Chen told reporters, "After everyone discussed it, they called the phone to defend their rights."

As an online dating website that claims to have 170 million high-quality members, whether the jiayuan Matchmaker service with the concept of "building a platform for real dating and serious dating" has been "true" and "serious", three complainants have said that they have been "cheated", "the high service fee, the flawed blind date and the inconsistent rhetoric must let everyone see the true face of the jiayuan Matchmaker service!" The words in the poem speak out everyone’s voice.